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Say

to people-pleasing habits in 6 weeks

‘‘Bye bye’’

  • What we say when we pitch to corporate: A transformative and practical training program, combined with 1:1 coaching for high-achievers who want to reclaim their life in 6 weeks.

    What we say to the girlies: Your cozy safe space where you'll learn how to retire from people-pleasing habits while sipping delicious oat lattes from designer cups.

    What our clients say: the place where boundaries come alive and where you’ll finally feel seen and heard.

    In the end the outcome is the same: Boundaries are a trainable skill. This is the place where your boundaries move from “knowing better” to actually saying the thing, holding the line, and standing your ground in real conversations. At work, at home, and in relationships.

    You’ll feel confident, in control, and taken seriously.

    The Boundaries Bootcamp is led by Stevanne, who carries the proud title of ‘‘retired people-pleaser’’.

    Learn more about Stevanne here.

  • The Boundaries Bootcamp is a live program where you get personal guidance and continous support.

    We know that as a high-achiever, you bring a lot of drive and responsibility. That also means you are thoughtful about what you invest your energy in… especially if you have tried setting boundaries before and it did not work.

    The difference? This time, you are not doing it alone.

    What sets The Boundaries Bootcamp apart is the learning space. Every detail in the program (including the location) is intentionally designed to create psychological safety, not only for you to feel cozy, but to make positive change possible.

    Whether you want to set stronger boundaries in your personal life, work life, or both, you are welcome here.

  • The Boundaries Bootcamp is designed by a high-achiever for high-achievers.

    You know what needs to change, but you struggle to translate insight into everyday behaviour. It bridges the gap between awareness and action.

    This is a program focused on doing. You learn to recognize your boundaries in real situations and practice communicating them clearly, even when life feels busy or uncertain.

    We don’t draw a line between work and personal life. They influence each other, because they are both part of your life.

    1. Once you sign up, you’ll receive a welcome email with all the details you need. Location, timing, and your preparation.

    2. Yay! It is the live training of The Boundaries Bootcamp: no need to bring a pen or notebook. Everything is taken care of. All you need to do is show up. <3

    3. Welcome to Atelier Cohésion in Rotterdam! Take a few moments to take in this beautiful space while Stevanne prepares your coffee.

    4. The other 3 bootcampers have arrived, that makes 4 of you in total! A small, like-minded group where there is space for your story, your questions, and your pace.

    5. Let’s get to work. Boundary setting, but make it practical and turn your goals into reality.

    6. Time for a delicious snack: all your breakthroughs make you hungry.

    7. WHAT? The day is already over? Yep, time flies when you feel safe, focused, and supported. Oh and now is the perfect time to unpack that goodiebag you have been eyeing. ;)

    8. Together, we turn your retirement plan from people-pleasing into a concrete, personal action plan you can actually use.

    9. YAY! You did it! Let’s cheer to your succes! We will see each other again in your 1:1 coaching sessions to keep the momentum going.

    • A 6-week live program with personal guidance from certified leadership trainer and boundary expert Stevanne van der Velden

    • A cozy and safe learning space in the historic part of Rotterdam: Atelier Cohésion

    • Three hours of the live bootcamp training

    • Two live 90-minute 1:1 coaching sessions with Stevanne

    • One 60-minute online clarity call with clinical psychologist and the queen of resilience: Ines Gaston

    • Hard copy of The Boundaries Bootcamp Workbook: 20+ exercises and saying ‘‘no’’ scripts that you can implement immediately

    • Delicious snacks, drinks and a goodiebag 🎀

    • Boundaries made simple: receive Stevanne’s3-step Boundary Framework and set-back plan

    • Lifelong access to The Boundaries Bootcamp binge-worthy online training

    • Control within reach: Join the WhatsApp group and get support when needed

    • We stand fully behind our method. That is why we offer a money-back guarantee.

  • The next Boundaries Bootcamp will start on Saturday 12 September from 13:00-16:00 in Rotterdam.

    There are only 2 spots left!

    Claim your ticket by sending an e-mail to: hello@theboundariesbootcamp.com or by filling out the form below.

  • €888,-*

    The Boundaries Bootcamp is a complete 6-week experience, not just a training.

    You not only get a 3-hour empowering LIVE session, but also two 90 minute 1:1 coaching sessions, lifelong access to The Boundaries Bootcamp Online Training, a call with clinical psychologist Ines Gaston, a hard copy Boundaries Bootcamp Workbook, a goodiebag and practical tools.

    See this as an investment in your future.

    * (excl. 21 % VAT)

    Flexible payment plans available.

Hey high-achiever, 

this is your exit strategy to escape the never-ending loop.

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❊ Love letters

''I felt a connection with Stevanne, I felt heard and understood from the first interaction. I wanted to make the first step on setting up healthy bounderies and learn how to say no.''

— A.

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“Stevanne provided me with one on one coaching in a safe environment where you can truly be yourself. She challenges you to go further and gain deeper insights. It genuinely felt like Stevanne was my personal cheerleader. At the same time, I knew and felt that she would hold me accountable when needed, which is always a great motivator for me.”

— C.

‘’Stevanne is not your average trainer. She is engaging, professional and has an eye for everyone in the group. I’ve made so many positive changes in such a short time.’’

— L.

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‘'The Boundaries Bootcamp was not just a workshop, it was a safe space, where I meet like-minded people, I felt heard, understood and cared for. I also love the workbook and I'm looking forward for your 1:1 sessions.’’

— A.

‘’It was a beautiful opportunity to challenge myself again and learn to express my boundaries more clearly, both personally and professionally. The space to share, the workbook, the location, the other women, and you… everything just felt right.’’

— M.

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Claim your spot

You can keep figuring it out alone… and fall back into old habits

Or you can reclaim your future and achieve lasting change.

Claim your seat for the next live Boundaries Bootcamp on 12 September 2026 below.

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